Day Four of the Selfless Challenge

This is the fourth day of the selfless challenge and so far it has been going well. I did modify it by alternating which question I asked him. (What can I do for you today? and How can I pray for you?) It changes up how we begin the morning, and it allows him to think about something different from the day before.

From the start, I could see that Aaron loved the interest that I was taking in him by offering to pray for him. It transfers the focus on him and it keeps me focused on making sure I am praying for him or doing what he needs.

This brings me back to my last post about how we become selfish in relationships. This challenge causes you to serve your man. It helps you to be selfless and I know that I am not always the most selfless person. I like to have the world revolve around me at times, but that doesn't create a healthy relationship. So this challenge is definitely helping me be more selfless! I look forward on seeing how this challenge transforms me and our relationship.

- Jem